Choose somewhere you'll be comfortable
Feeling relaxed makes flirting easy.
Pick somewhere with comfortable seating and space to talk. An hour or two is plenty for a first meet.
Ideas with a little spark
- Cocktails at a stylish bar, with booth seating if you can find it.
- Dessert or afternoon tea. A little indulgence is always a good start.
- A comedy night, followed by a drink to talk it over.
- Dinner somewhere you know and love, so you can relax and enjoy it.
- A dance class, for something more playful.
Who pays?
There's no rule. Split it, take it in turns, or let whoever asked pay. A quick, light-hearted word avoids any awkwardness.
Keep it safe
- Meet somewhere public the first time, and make your own way there and back.
- Tell a friend where you're going and who you're meeting.
- Keep an eye on your drink.