Dating advice and guides

Flirty, practical advice for BBWs, BHMs and their admirers, from your profile and first message to confidence and staying safe, all in one place.

Getting started

BBW dating: where to start

What BBW, BHM and SSBBW mean, and how to begin.

A flirty profile that shows off the real you

Photos that work, and words that get replies.

How to start a conversation on a dating site

Flirty openers that keep it classy.

Flirty first date ideas

Comfortable, fun places to meet.

Owning your curves

Flirting boldly, without apologising for a single curve.

BHM dating: big, handsome and in demand

For bigger men, and the people who love them.

For admirers: how to approach a BBW

Respect first, and compliments that land.

Saying no to rude or pushy messages

Boundaries, blocking and reporting.

How to spot a fake dating profile

The warning signs, including too much flattery, too soon.

What the badges mean

Ticks, badges and ratings explained, and how to earn your own.

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