Your boundaries matter
Flirting should be fun for both people.
Most members are friendly and respectful. If someone is rude about your body, pushes after you've said no, or makes you uncomfortable, you don't owe them anything.
What to do
- Don't reply, or keep it short: "Not interested, thanks."
- Block them, so they can't contact you again.
- Report the profile. Every profile has a report button, and reports help keep The BBW Pond friendly. Read what the badges mean.
Unwanted pictures
Explicit images are detected and blurred automatically, so you decide whether to see them. If someone sends something you didn't ask for, report it.
Pressure to move off the site, or to pay
Anyone who rushes you onto another app, or asks for money or gift cards, is a warning sign. Read how to spot a fake dating profile.
Look after yourself
Take a break if you need to, and come back when you're ready. Read owning your curves.