You're the main attraction
People come to The BBW Pond because they love curves.
You don't need to hide your size, joke about it first or wait for someone to "look past it". Here, it's part of what people are looking for.
Flirt like you mean it
- Lead with what you love about yourself in your profile and your photos.
- Accept compliments with a smile, not an apology.
- Be playful. A cheeky line goes a long way.
- Know your worth. If someone isn't treating you well, move on.
Wear what makes you feel good
For photos and dates, choose outfits you feel fabulous in. Confidence shows far more than any particular style.
If someone is rude
That says more about them than you. Read saying no to rude or pushy messages.