Respect first
The quickest way to stand out is to treat her as a person, not a type.
Being an admirer is welcome here, and it's fine to say you love curves. But your first message should be about her: her profile, her photos, what she's written.
Compliments that land
- Her smile, her eyes, her style, or something she's said that made you laugh.
- Be specific. "That red dress is stunning" beats "nice pics".
- Save body compliments until you've been chatting a while and they're clearly welcome.
Mistakes that get you ignored
- Crude or explicit openers.
- Treating her as a fantasy, rather than someone you're getting to know.
- Pushing after she's said no, or going quiet without a word.
Keep it going
Ask questions, share a little about yourself, and suggest meeting when it feels right. Our flirty first date ideas can help.