BHMs are very welcome
BHM stands for big handsome man, and many members are looking for exactly that.
If that's you, say so on your profile. It helps the right people find you straight away.
For BHMs
- Use honest, recent photos, including a full-length one.
- Show your personality. Warmth and humour are always attractive.
- Be confident. You don't need to apologise for your size here.
For admirers of BHMs
- Start with his profile, not his size.
- Be warm and genuine. Compliment his smile, his style or his sense of humour.
- Let things build at a pace you're both comfortable with.
Getting started
Read how to start a conversation on a dating site, and our flirty first date ideas when you're ready to meet.